By Julie Jason
Couples have options for how to handle their finances. The most obvious choice is whether to hold bank and investment accounts jointly or separately.
Data show that the number of joint bank accounts is trending downward. As reported by U.S. Census Bureau economist Alex Opanasets, the Census Bureau’s Survey of Income and Program Participation indicated that only 40% of married couples held all their bank accounts jointly, compared with 53% in 1996 (tinyurl.com/2vwbrba9).
Different age groups studied show younger couples most likely to opt for separate accounts.
Fidelity’s 2026 Couples & Money study reported that 34% of Gen Z couples (those born between 1997 and 2012) opt for financial independence by keeping all their money in separate accounts, a much higher percentage than millennials (26%), Generation X (19%) and baby boomers (15%).
The survey, conducted in October and November of 2025, involved 3,193 married or partnered U.S. adults ages 18 or older “who had been married or in a long-term relationship (including domestic partnerships or civil unions) for three or more years” (tinyurl.com/yw7n7vp7). Fidelity is a financial services firm.
When the study looked at who had both joint and individual accounts, millennials (born between 1981 and 1996) topped the four groups (42%), while boomers (born between 1946 and 1964) led in keeping all their money in joint accounts (51%).
The question is: Does account ownership matter?
The U.S. News & World Report article “Joint Checking Accounts: Here’s When You Should (and Shouldn’t) Get One” points out that joint bank accounts promote trust and transparency, as well as offer financial clarity, but adds that the best way to manage money in a marriage could be a combination of joint and separate accounts (tinyurl.com/3pebr9wv).
An example: A joint account could handle household bills, while personal spending could be placed in separate accounts.
Good ideas – but only if there is a disciplined plan for how couples deal with financial decisions.
That’s something JoLynne Holloman, the director of production for communications services at Fidelity Investments, embraced, saying that keeping her finances separate from her husband’s worked best for their relationship.
Holloman, in the article “Why my spouse and I keep our money separate” (tinyurl.com/k2kvv3pd), pointed out that after her first marriage ended (which involved combined finances), she realized she was “too removed from understanding how money was actually working in my life.”
She wrote that in her current marriage, separate finances “means shared responsibility. Each of us is in charge of our budget, staying on top of our spending, and contributing to the goals we’re setting for both the short and long term. The fundamentals that we’ve built our partnership on — trust, understanding, stability — all translate to how we’re dealing with our finances.”
Before taking any action, here is a warning: Changing ownership after you are married should not be done simply for convenience. More is at stake. Always consider the effect of retitling assets in the bigger context of your family’s wealth plan – that includes income taxes, estate plan and estate taxes, and potentially pre- and postnuptial agreements. You do not want to inadvertently undo the work that your advisers did for you.
Just consider this: What happens if you pass away? A joint account will pass to the surviving spouse. The separate account will pass to the person you name in your will; if you don’t have a will, the intestacy laws of the state you live in will make the decision for you.
However, you can add a beneficiary to a separate account that works like your IRA beneficiary designation. Known as a transfer on death (TOD) account or payable on death account (POD), the beneficiary receives the account when you pass away. See the Experian article “What You Need to Know About Bank Account Beneficiary Rules” (tinyurl.com/acfkyyk4).
No matter the path you take with your accounts, involve your tax adviser, investment adviser and estate planner.
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